A powerful and favorite conversation. People recovering from heavy involvement with porn often have questions about sex, love, and relationships. In this engaging video Remojo founder, Jack Jenkins, and Wendy Maltz, coauthor of The Porn Trap, reveal how to make progress in sexual healing from porn’s negative influence. This engaging podcast conversation entitled, “Porn Recovery and Sexual Intimacy,” first aired on the Remojo podcst on 5-24-2021.
Remojo is a program, based in London, with international reach, that supports people in their recovery from porn. Jack, a former porn user himself, and Wendy have a friendly discussion about the difference between porn-related sex and sex based on self-respect, real caring, and full-body sensuality. Listen in and find out about crucial skills, how to gain them, and the healing strategies and techniques which help facilitate desired change.
Questions covered include:
- Why is sharing the fact that I think I have a problem with porn so important?
- How can I break my silence, get out of shame, and share safely?
- How can I overcome negative messages and talk about sex in positive ways?
- Why is it important to assume control of my sexuality – especially as a man?
- How come I feel angry and upset over having to quit porn?
- How can I tell the difference between my own desires and what porn has conditioned me to want?
- How can I be in my body more?
- How can I connect my sexual energy with caring and love?
- How can I move away from thinking about sex as impulse gratification?
- How can I express loving feelings with my body and presence in sex?
- What are the benefits of having love-connected, authentic sex in a relationship?
- Why is it important to replace porn-related sex with a new way of approaching sex?
Watch this interview here.
or listen to the interview in audio-only format here
Short on time?
Check out these brief Remojo video clips from the interview:
Porn Doesn’t Have Anything to Do With Love | REMOJO Podcast
Are We Good at Talking About Sex? | REMOJO Podcast
Conquering the Isolation and Shame of Porn I REMOJO Podcast
Porn Disconnects Us from Healthy Sexuality | REMOJO Podcast