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Relearning Touch After Betrayal

Posted on August 24, 2022 by Wendy Maltz - Media Interviews, Porn Problem Recovery, Sexual Abuse Healing

How do couples rebuild trust and enjoyable intimacy when confronted with the emotional fallout caused by a partner’s past problem with porn? Find out in this informative two-part program, “Relearning Touch After Betrayal,” [Episode 153 & Episode 154] presented on Geoff Steuer’s From Crisis to Connection podcast. Geoff, an esteemed therapist and relationship educator, and his wife Jody explore with Wendy the challenges couples face and the effective relearning touch exercises and recovery strategies that they can use to heal their sexual relationship.

For more information and to access this program use the links below:

Relearning Touch After Betrayal:

Part One: Episode 153 – The impact of sexual betrayal on the couple [8-11-2022]

Part Two: Episode 154 – Touch and healing strategies [8-18-2022]

Would you like to listen to more “From Crisis to Connection” podcast programs with Wendy, Geoff, and Jody? Check out:

Why Porn Is Bad for Marriages: Episode 147 – Part One [6-30-2022]

Why Porn Is Bad for Marriages: Episode 148 – Part Two [7-7-2022]

Sexual Healing from Sexual Abuse: Episode 139 [5-5-2022]

Tags: couples sex therapy, impact of pronography, porn recovery, pornography problems, relearning touch after betrayal, sex abuse healing, sexual healing


The Body article on Sexual Healing Tools

Posted on October 3, 2019 by Wendy Maltz - Sexual Abuse Healing

Writer Hannah Harris Green explores old and new sexual healing techniques in her article, “These Women Help Others Heal From Trauma and Enjoy Sex” (The Body: The HIV/AIDS Resource, Oct. 1, 2019). The article interviews Wendy Maltz and describes several basic Relearning Touch techniques from The Sexual Healing Journey. It also features a Netherlands-based engineer’s self-discovery kit for survivors and a clothing designer’s dental dam underwear. Though the tools come from divergent therapeutic and engineering fields, they share a common goal of helping survivors learn to feel more relaxed, present, and in control during intimate relating.

To read the article CLICK HERE

Tags: Hannah Harris Green, relearning touch, sexual abuse, sexual healing, The Body, The Sexual Healing Journey, wendy maltz


How to Support Survivors of Sex Abuse — NYT article

Posted on March 1, 2019 by Wendy Maltz - Sexual Abuse Healing

What do you say, and how can you help, someone who was sexually abused? Vanessa Marin provides a wealth of tips and ideas in her article, “How to Support a Friend or Loved One Who Has Been Sexually Abused?” (NYT, 2/27/19). Wendy, author of The Sexual Healing Journey, is one of several experts featured who provide concrete ideas and advice. When offered with caring, respect and sensitivity, support from loved ones and friends can go a long way in providing comfort and encouraging healing.

Click here to access the article

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Tags: sexual healing, survivors of sex abuse, The New York Times, The Sexual Healing Journey, Vanessa Marin, wendy maltz


“Hooked on Porn?” Sexology Podcast Interview

Posted on January 23, 2019 by Wendy Maltz - Media Interviews, Porn Problem Recovery

When does porn use become a serious problem? And what can you do to heal, if you already know it is a concern? Dr. Nazanin Moali recently interviewed Wendy Maltz, coauthor of The Porn Trap, for her popular Sexology Podcast (episode 107). It’s called, “Hooked on Porn?” In it they discuss the pros and cons of porn use, how to recognize serious problems, the impact on intimate partners, and what it takes to personally and sexually heal when a person wants out of porn. This is a lively discussion filled with straight talk and an abundance of sexual healing specifics.
To access the podcast, CLICK HERE:

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Dr. Nazanin Moali, the Sexology Podcast

Tags: Dr. Nazanin Moali, Hooked on Porn, porn addiction, pornography problems, sexual healing, The Porn Trap, wendy maltz


Sexual Healing Interview on The Thoughtful Counselor

Posted on September 13, 2018 by Wendy Maltz - Sexual Abuse Healing, Uncategorized

How can counselors best help survivors begin to address sexual healing concerns? Wendy Maltz, author of The Sexual Healing Journey, shares ideas, effective strategies, and innovative interventions on Megan Speciale’s The Thoughtful Counselor podcast (Episode 97: “Sexual Healing after #MeToo”. In this friendly discussion, Wendy and Megan discuss the impact of sexual abuse on sexuality, the healing process, readiness for healing, and therapist do’s and don’ts. CLICK HERE to have a listen.

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presenter-pic Megan Speciale, host of The Thoughtful Counselor – Sex Series

Tags: Megan Speciale, sex abuse treatment, sexual healing, The Sexual Healing Journey, The Thoughtful Counselor, therapist tips on sexual healing, wendy maltz


Sexology Podcast – Wendy & Dr. Moali Explore Sexual Healing

Posted on September 6, 2017 by Wendy Maltz - Media Interviews, Sexual Abuse Healing

Dr. Nazanin Moali interviewed Wendy for her on the Sexology podcast,“Healing from Sexual Assault with Wendy Maltz LCSW”. Wendy really enjoyed being on the program as Nazanin is such  a caring therapist and interviewer. They identify some common myths about sex assault, various impacts of abuse on sex, how to heal, and what it feels like to develop and reclaim healthy sexuality.

To Listen, CLICK HERE

 

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Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.D., Sexology Podcast

Tags: Nazanin Moali, relearning touch, sex abuse healing, sexual healing, The Sexual Healing Journey, wendy maltz


“Porn Scars” Mental Health podcast Interview

Posted on July 31, 2017 by Wendy Maltz - Media Interviews, Porn Problem Recovery, Understanding Sexual Fantasies

Ever wonder how initial and heavy use of pornography can impact mental health? The ability to form loving sexual relationships? Danny Whittaker of the mental health podcast, “My Own Worst Enemy,” discusses these topics and more in a dynamic interview with Wendy Maltz. The interview, “Porn Scars: Afflictions of the Porn Generation” delves into new kinds of problems young men are sharing, the compelling attributes of today’s porn, the importance of developing sex and relationship skill sets, personal growth processes for healing, and even the key to happiness! Candid, penetrating, and lively, it is an interview that identifies and addresses often overlooked repercussions.

Link to the interview here

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Danny Whittaker of myownworstenemy.org

Tags: Danny Whittaker, masturbation, My Own Worst Enemy, porn addiction, porn hub, porn recovery, Porn Scars, relationships, sex, sexual healing, The Porn Trap, wendy maltz


Wendy’s Incest & Sexuality Book Now FREE

Posted on February 28, 2017 by Wendy Maltz - Sexual Abuse Healing

Wendy Maltz’s first book, the recovery classic, Incest & Sexuality: A Guide to Understanding & Healing is now available for FREE download through the International Psychotherapy Institute’s free psychotherapy books program. Coauthored with Beverly Holman, it was first published in 1987 by Lexington books, and later republished by Jossey-Bass.  It broke new ground being the first book to devote itself entirely to the sexual repercussions of sexual abuse.
Wendy remembers writing it by hand on a yellow legal pad and later literally “cutting and pasting” (with scissors and glue!!!) the typed versions of early drafts to make edits. Incest & Sexuality sold over 50,000 copies during its first few years alone, and educated both professional and public readers, for many years more until it went out of print. While understandably a bit dated now, given that it’s been 30 years, it remains a groundbreaking healing guide filled with stories, concepts, and heart-felt ideas that are still relevant to people today.

To read more about Incest & Sexuality on our site, CLICK HERE

To find out more about the free download, CLICK HERE or on the book jacket below:

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Tags: Beverly Holman, classic recovery book, free psychotherapy books, Incest and Sexuality, International Psychotherapy Institute, sexual abuse recovery, sexual healing, wendy maltz


Wendy Discusses Sexual Healing on “Thriving Launch” Podcast

Posted on February 15, 2017 by Wendy Maltz - Sexual Abuse Healing

Check out this interview Wendy gave for Luis Congdon’s “Thriving Launch” relationship podcast to learn about sexual healing techniques and  basic principles of sexual recovery.  Find out how it’s possible to overcome negative repercussions with patience, smarts, and new touch experiences. “Love is stronger than abuse”
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Tags: Luis Congdon, relationship podcast, sexual healing, sexual healing from sexual abuse, sexual recovery from sexual abuse, Thriving Launch, wendy maltz


Alanis Morissette and Wendy Talk Love, Sex, and Healing

Posted on February 5, 2016 by Wendy Maltz - Media Interviews, Porn Problem Recovery, Sexual Abuse Healing, Uncategorized, Understanding Sexual Fantasies

Singer/Songwriter Alanis Morissette interviewed Wendy Maltz for her “Conversation with Alanis” podcast (Episode 5). It aired on Monday, Feb 8, 2016 and can be accessed at anytime thereafter, at no charge.

In this dynamic, funny, and heartfelt conversation, Alanis and Wendy, reveal much about love, sex, porn issues, sexual healing, fantasies, and more. It is a great interview and really showcases Alanis’ powerful work as a catalyst for personal growth and relationship healing. With this episode, Alanis breaks new ground talking candidly and deeply about sexual issues, and, by example, encouraging others to do the same.

Click here for more information on the podcast episode.

  Click here to ACCESS THE PODCAST

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As prep for her listeners, Alanis posted Wendy’s article “The Porn Trap” (aka “Is Porn Bad for You?”/”Out of the Shadow” on her blog.

Tags: "Conversation with Alanis", Alanis Morissette, Alanis.com, healing, love, personal growth, porn issues, Private Thoughts, Relearning Touch videos, sex, sexual fantasies, sexual healing, The Porn Trap, The Sexual Healing Journey, wendy maltz


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